The season of waiting for “the one” can be one of the most challenging yet transformative periods of our lives. But it all depends on how we choose to wait. This waiting period should not just be about waiting passively. Instead, it should be a period where we grow as individuals, deepen our faith and relationship with God, and become the person God has created us to be (in this current season). As someone who is currently in the season of waiting, I truly encourage you to embrace this season with purpose and hope. How? Below I’m going to share a couple of things that God has been convicting me about on how to embrace the season of waiting.
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How To Embrace The Season Of Waiting
You Are Not Alone In This Season
God has a funny way of working sometimes.
You see, on a normal day, this would be the last topic I would want to write about because of how much it has affected me and drained me this year.
But, after a very transformative week of a lot of self-reflection, prayer, and tears, I felt the urge to write about this topic now more than ever.
Regardless of how old you are or how long you’ve been waiting, I want to tell you that you are NOT alone in this season. I completely understand you.
This season is not easy at all.
The pressure to jump to the next season of life, the frustration of not knowing who’s the one yet, the disappointment and heartbreaks along the way, and the constant tears can be OVERWHELMING.
Trust me, I know how tiring it can be.
And a lot of other women do too.
So, don’t ever feel like you’re the only one. Or worst, feel as if something is wrong with you. There are so many other women on the same boat as you!
And that is exactly what has encouraged me to write this post. I hope that my openness about this topic and the recent convictions God has put in my heart these last days can be of help to others, too!
Change Your Perspective
I think one of the biggest reasons why this season has been especially hard on me is because of the perspective I’ve had on “waiting” all this time.
Instead of trying to understand what God wants to teach me and do in my life during this season, I was too busy “hating” this season and desperately trying to jump into the next season of my life.
And this only brought me more frustration, disappointment, and sadness.
It wasn’t until last week (after a day of crying) that God convicted me so hard on this and I was finally able to change my perspective on this matter.
For some reason, National BF/GF day triggered me immensely this year. So much so that I broke down completely before God and my closest friends, like never before. This forced me to have conversations that were vulnerable, but very eye-opening to me.
And after having those conversations, listening to a sermon on YouTube, praying to God, and reading scripture that day, God made me realize that:
- The season of waiting is not pointless. It’s a very transformative season where we are meant to work on different areas in our lives.
- There is a time for everything! If God is making us “wait” longer, there is a good reason and purpose behind this. We just have to trust.
- God is giving us this period of time to do a lot of self-reflection and correctly prepare for the next chapter of our lives. What kind of wife and mother do I want to be? What habits do I need to start practicing?
- After we find the person God has for us, our lives will never be the same again. We will never be single again. So, we should make the most out of this season and enjoy the company or our family and friends.
Instead of seeing the season of singleness as a burden, see it as a gift. This season will never come back, so make the most out of it NOW.
5 Things To Work On While You Wait
1 – Your Relationship With God
The season of waiting allows you to focus on your relationship with God without the distractions that can come with a romantic relationship. Use this opportunity to grow spiritually, deepen your prayer life, and understand God’s purpose for your life. A strong relationship with God is the foundation for all other relationships. So building a strong relationship with God will help you prepare yourself for a godly relationship in the future!
When you prioritize your relationship with God, you align your desires with His will.
Psalm 37:4 “Delight yourself also in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.” (NKJV)
2 – Your Personal Growth
Personal growth is an essential aspect of preparing for a future relationship. Reflect on areas where you can improve and take actionable steps toward becoming a better version of yourself.
This can include your:
- Emotional health – understand and process your emotions, seek healing for past wounds (your inner child), and learn how to communicate effectively.
- Physical health – take care of your body, develop good eating habits, and get adequate rest while you can.
- Mental health – challenge negative thought patterns, cultivate good habits, and work on your self-esteem!
Philippians 4:8 Finally, brethren, whatever things are true, whatever things are noble, whatever things are just, whatever things are pure, whatever things are lovely, whatever things are of good report, if there is any virtue and if there is anything praiseworthy—meditate on these things.” (NKJV)
3 – Your Relationships
While waiting for the person God has for you, build and nurture meaningful relationships with family, friends, and your community. These relationships provide support, encouragement, and accountability. They also help you develop social skills and emotional intelligence, which are valuable in any romantic relationship.
This is also a good time to fix broken relationships, practice forgiveness, and honor those around you.
Proverbs 27:17 As iron sharpens iron, So a man sharpens the countenance of his friend.” (NKJV)
4 – Your Passions And Interests
God has given each of us unique gifts, talents, and passions. Use this time to explore and develop them. Whether it’s pursuing a hobby, advancing in your career, or engaging in volunteer work, use the extra time you have now to do the things you love!
These activities not only bring fulfillment but also help you become a well-rounded individual.
Colossians 3:23 And whatever you do, do it heartily, as to the Lord and not to men.” (NKJV)
Something that I realized recently is that by pursuing our passions, we also position ourselves to meet like-minded individuals who share our interests and values. So, it’s a win-win! 🙂
5 – Your Patience
Waiting can be so difficult, especially when it feels like everyone around us is finding their partner. However, it’s important to remain patient during this season and not rush into anything. Patience is a virtue that is often developed through waiting.
Romans 8:25 But if we hope for what we do not see, we eagerly wait for it with perseverance.” (NKJV)
So, instead of losing hope, making quick decisions, or even worst, settling for the wrong person, let’s trust God’s timing and patiently wait on God.
His plans will always be better than ours!
Jeremiah 29:11 For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says the Lord, thoughts of peace and not of evil, to give you a future and a hope.” (NKJV)
Final Thoughts
Waiting for the person God has for you is not a passive experience but an active journey of growth and preparation. By embracing this season and all it offers, changing your perspective, and working on yourself and your relationships, the period of waiting will feel more like a gift rather than a burden. Remember, you’re not alone in this! ❤️
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Sending you blessings & love,
Gabby Abigail
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